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"Sexuality is a core characteristic and formative factor for human beings. It is a state of mind, representing our feelings about ourselves, what it’s like to be male or female, how we relate to people of our own gender and those of the opposite gender, how we establish relationships, and how we express ourselves. It is basic to our sense of self. As such it is an important part of development and growth. It is the ability to be intimate with another in mutually satisfying ways."

American Occupational Therapy Association

Sexual wellness is critical to mental and physical health regardless of physical illness or limitation. We want to provide the resources for our clients to overcome disabilities and challenges to explore and enjoy sexuality.Whether you deal with arthritis or are wheelchair-bound, let us help you find the right toys. Limitations can arise from a host of conditions ranging from a Spinal Cord Injury (SCI) to obesity and arthritis. Each of these conditions can have special considerations which you should discuss with your physician.

Let's take a look at a great TED talk by Dr .Daniel Sheypuk:

Go to Dr. Sheypuk's site.

One common concern, whether you have a physical disability or not, is lubrication. This may be a particular issue with older customers as well as women who have experienced a Spinal Cord Injury. Please feel free to take a look at our Lubrication Collection and find the right one for you. 

If you are concerned about making a mess when engaged in sexual activity, please take a look at the Exxxtreme Sheets from SI Novelties.

There is a terrific manual from the University of British Columbia that provides a comprehensive guide to selecting the right product for you depending on the specific condition. Using this guide, we have broken down our products into the following areas. 

  1. Limited Hand Function
  2. No Hand Function
  3. Set-Up by Caregiver
  4. Limited Strength in the Upper Extremity
  5. Limited Flexibility for Positioning

In addition there are some wonderful tools available online from Spinal Cord Injury Ontario's Learning Center.

The following items align with the suggestions in the Sexual Device Manual for Persons with Disabilities from the Disabilities Health Research Network. Stay tuned for updates on this list.

In addition, there are a number of items available our Sportsheets Sex In The Shower Collection that may be of use beyond the bedroom. They provide handholds for an otherwise slippery environment as well.

Here is a great piece by Karley Sciortino (@slutever) from VICE on the challenges associated with sex and disabilities.

 

Further Reading:
Disclaimer: As we are not medical professionals, you should consult your physician before using any of these products.

Sex & Disability - Limited Hand Collection

Using the Sexual Device Manual for Persons with Disabilities from the Disabilities Health Research Network as a guide, we have compiled this collection to help those customers with Limited Hand mobility. Stay tuned for updates on this list.

Air Touch 2 Clitoral Suction Vibrator similar to Womanizer
Cloud 9 Air Touch II Dual Function Clitoral S...
Cloud 9 Novelties Finger Vibe with Stimulating Tips
Cloud 9 Novelties Finger Vibe with Stimulatin...
Curve Novelties Rooster Ramrod Black
Curve Novelties Rooster Ramrod
Hot Octopuss Pocket Pulse
Hot Octopuss Pocket Pulse
Hot Octopuss Pocket Pulse Remote
Hot Octopuss Pocket Pulse Remote
Magic Wand Rechargeable
Magic Wand Rechargeable
Man Wand
Man Wand
Plus Size Beginners Strap On Harness - Black
Plus Size Beginners Strap On Harness - Black
Plus Size Beginners Strap On Harness - Purple
Plus Size Beginners Strap On Harness - Purple
Pulse III Solo Vibrator for Men Guybrator
Pulse III Solo Vibrator for Men
Rockbox 2 Vibrating Masturbator Vibrating Robot Tongue
Rockbox 2 Vibrating Masturbator
Ruby Glow from Rocks Off
Ruby Glow from Rocks Off
Tantus RUMBLE Personal Massager Vibrator
RUMBLE™ Personal Massager
Satisfyer Vibe Magic Bunny Purple Rabbit Style Vibrator
Satisfyer Vibe Magic Bunny Purple Rabbit Styl...
Satisfyer Vibes Charming Smile G-Spot Vibrator Purple
Satisfyer Vibes Charming Smile G-Spot Vibrato...
Satisfyer Vibes Master Vibrator
Satisfyer Vibes Master Vibrator
Satisfyer Vibes Mr. Rabbit Pink Vibrator
Satisfyer Vibes Mr. Rabbit Pink Vibrator
Satisfyer Vibes Petting Hippo Pink G-Spot Vibrator
Satisfyer Vibes Petting Hippo Pink G-Spot Vib...
Satisfyer Vibes Power Flower Red Vibrator
Satisfyer Vibes Power Flower Red Vibrator
Satisfyer Vibes Yummy Sunshine Yellow G-Spot Vibrator
Satisfyer Vibes Yummy Sunshine Yellow G-Spot ...
Screaming O Ling O Vibrating Tongue Ring Vibrator
Screaming O Color Pop Quickie LingO - Pink
Fingos Tingly Blue Eaches
Screaming O FingO's - Tingly Blue
Sportsheets Thigh Harness
Sportsheets Thigh Harness
Ss Plus Black Pvc Corsette Strap-On
Ss Plus Black Pvc Corsette Strap-On
Surenda Oral Vibrator Oral Sex Vibrator Blow Job Vibrator
Surenda Oral Vibe
Tantus Silicone Curve PPA w/Harness - Purple
Tantus Silicone Curve PPA w/Harness - Purple
Vedo Ayu Mini Finger Vibe Set
Vedo Ayu Mini Finger Vibe Set
Vibratex Magic Wand Original
Vibratex Magic Wand Original

Sex & Disability - No Hand Function

Using the Sexual Device Manual for Persons with Disabilities from the Disabilities Health Research Network as a guide, we have compiled this collection to help those customers with No Hand Function. Stay tuned for updates on this list.
Air Touch 2 Clitoral Suction Vibrator similar to Womanizer
Cloud 9 Air Touch II Dual Function Clitoral S...
Curve Novelties Rooster Ramrod Black
Curve Novelties Rooster Ramrod
Hot Octopuss Pocket Pulse
Hot Octopuss Pocket Pulse
Hot Octopuss Pocket Pulse Remote
Hot Octopuss Pocket Pulse Remote
My Secret Screaming O Remote Control Panty Vibrator
My Secret Screaming O Remote Control Panty Vibe
Plus Size Beginners Strap On Harness - Black
Plus Size Beginners Strap On Harness - Black
Plus Size Beginners Strap On Harness - Purple
Plus Size Beginners Strap On Harness - Purple
Pulse III Solo Vibrator for Men Guybrator
Pulse III Solo Vibrator for Men
Ruby Glow from Rocks Off
Ruby Glow from Rocks Off
Screaming O Ling O Vibrating Tongue Ring Vibrator
Screaming O Color Pop Quickie LingO - Pink
Sportsheets Thigh Harness
Sportsheets Thigh Harness
Ss Plus Black Pvc Corsette Strap-On
Ss Plus Black Pvc Corsette Strap-On
Surenda Oral Vibrator Oral Sex Vibrator Blow Job Vibrator
Surenda Oral Vibe
Tantus Silicone Curve PPA w/Harness - Purple
Tantus Silicone Curve PPA w/Harness - Purple

Sex & Disability - Set-Up by Caregiver

Using the Sexual Device Manual for Persons with Disabilities from the Disabilities Health Research Network as a guide, we have compiled this collection to help those customers who require assistance for setup by a caregiver. Stay tuned for updates on this list.
Fetish Fantasy Ultra Position Master Sex Furniture
Fetish Fantasy Series Ultra Inflatable Positi...
Hot Octopuss Pocket Pulse
Hot Octopuss Pocket Pulse
Hot Octopuss Pocket Pulse Remote
Hot Octopuss Pocket Pulse Remote
Man Wand
Man Wand
Plus Size Beginners Strap On Harness - Black
Plus Size Beginners Strap On Harness - Black
Plus Size Beginners Strap On Harness - Purple
Plus Size Beginners Strap On Harness - Purple
Pulse III Solo Vibrator for Men Guybrator
Pulse III Solo Vibrator for Men
Ruby Glow from Rocks Off
Ruby Glow from Rocks Off
Screaming O Ling O Vibrating Tongue Ring Vibrator
Screaming O Color Pop Quickie LingO - Pink
Sex Sling Black Neoprene
Sex Sling Black Neoprene
Sportsheets Thigh Harness
Sportsheets Thigh Harness
Ss Plus Black Pvc Corsette Strap-On
Ss Plus Black Pvc Corsette Strap-On
Tantus Silicone Curve PPA w/Harness - Purple
Tantus Silicone Curve PPA w/Harness - Purple

Sex & Disability - Limited Strength in the Upper Extremity

Using the Sexual Device Manual for Persons with Disabilities from the Disabilities Health Research Network as a guide, we have compiled this collection to help those customers with Limited Strength in the Upper Extremity. Stay tuned for updates on this list.
Cloud 9 Novelties Finger Vibe with Stimulating Tips
Cloud 9 Novelties Finger Vibe with Stimulatin...
Fetish Fantasy Ultra Position Master Sex Furniture
Fetish Fantasy Series Ultra Inflatable Positi...
Magic Wand Rechargeable
Magic Wand Rechargeable
Man Wand
Man Wand
Plus Size Beginners Strap On Harness - Black
Plus Size Beginners Strap On Harness - Black
Plus Size Beginners Strap On Harness - Purple
Plus Size Beginners Strap On Harness - Purple
Pulse III Solo Vibrator for Men Guybrator
Pulse III Solo Vibrator for Men
Ruby Glow from Rocks Off
Ruby Glow from Rocks Off
Tantus RUMBLE Personal Massager Vibrator
RUMBLE™ Personal Massager
Satisfyer Vibes Charming Smile G-Spot Vibrator Purple
Satisfyer Vibes Charming Smile G-Spot Vibrato...
Satisfyer Vibes Master Vibrator
Satisfyer Vibes Master Vibrator
Satisfyer Vibes Mr. Rabbit Pink Vibrator
Satisfyer Vibes Mr. Rabbit Pink Vibrator
Satisfyer Vibes Petting Hippo Pink G-Spot Vibrator
Satisfyer Vibes Petting Hippo Pink G-Spot Vib...
Satisfyer Vibes Power Flower Red Vibrator
Satisfyer Vibes Power Flower Red Vibrator
Satisfyer Vibes Yummy Sunshine Yellow G-Spot Vibrator
Satisfyer Vibes Yummy Sunshine Yellow G-Spot ...
Screaming O Ling O Vibrating Tongue Ring Vibrator
Screaming O Color Pop Quickie LingO - Pink
Sex Sling Black Neoprene
Sex Sling Black Neoprene
Sportsheets Thigh Harness
Sportsheets Thigh Harness
Ss Plus Black Pvc Corsette Strap-On
Ss Plus Black Pvc Corsette Strap-On
Surenda Oral Vibrator Oral Sex Vibrator Blow Job Vibrator
Surenda Oral Vibe
Tantus Silicone Curve PPA w/Harness - Purple
Tantus Silicone Curve PPA w/Harness - Purple
Vedo Ayu Mini Finger Vibe Set
Vedo Ayu Mini Finger Vibe Set
Vedo Inu Mini Vibrator
Vedo Inu Mini Vibe
Vibratex Magic Wand Original
Vibratex Magic Wand Original

Sex & Disability - Limited Flexibility for Positioning

Using the Sexual Device Manual for Persons with Disabilities from the Disabilities Health Research Network as a guide, we have compiled this collection to help those customers with Limited Flexibility for Positioning. Stay tuned for updates on this list.
Fetish Fantasy Ultra Position Master Sex Furniture
Fetish Fantasy Series Ultra Inflatable Positi...
Hot Octopuss Pocket Pulse
Hot Octopuss Pocket Pulse
Hot Octopuss Pocket Pulse Remote
Hot Octopuss Pocket Pulse Remote
Man Wand
Man Wand
Pulse III Solo Vibrator for Men Guybrator
Pulse III Solo Vibrator for Men
Tantus RUMBLE Personal Massager Vibrator
RUMBLE™ Personal Massager
Satisfyer Vibes Yummy Sunshine Yellow G-Spot Vibrator
Satisfyer Vibes Yummy Sunshine Yellow G-Spot ...
Sex Sling Black Neoprene
Sex Sling Black Neoprene